How many times have you told yourself, “This year will be a new year” or “I am ready to get my life together”? Day after day, week after week, month after month, and year after year, it’s the same story.
You have the same cycle of behaviors and you have yet to do anything about it. You know you want to change. You know that you weren’t put here on Earth to be on auto pilot.
You know that there’s more to life but you just can’t seem to shake the bad habit of DOING NOTHING ABOUT IT! The thing is, you HAVE to. It’s no longer a want, it has to turn into a NEED, better yet a MUST.
All successful women have a mindset of abundance. When you change the way you think, doors will start opening for your instantly. Things that you never thought would happen, WILL start happening.
If you’re ready to transition from where you are (the girl that’s a hot mess) to where you want to be (the girl with MAJOR success) then start by doing this.
You probably didn’t notice that you were doing these things that were holding you back but you are. You are the only one that’s standing in your way and it’s more than liking what you are saying to yourself.
“I really want to change but good things don’t happen to me.”
“I’ll never be able to quit my job unless I hit the lottery or marry rich.”
“Everyone else can afford to live a happy life except me. I just don’t have it.”
You don’t have enough confidence in yourself to get to where you want to be. Because you have a poor mindset, you are attracting more poor things.
Believe in yourself and your abilities. There are people that would love to be able to do the things you do. Be proud of that.
The action to take here: Begin using positive affirmations daily. Some of my personal affirmations are “Abundance flows through my life with ease and grace” and “I’m a magnet for success.”
TAKE ACTION – FIND 3 POSITIVE AFFIRMATIONS YOU CAN USE DAILY
Increase Your Wealth Conscious
You may have never heard of this term before but I’m here to tell you that it’s a must to know on how to be successful. Your wealth conscious is very similar to what you say that sabotage yourself. It’s the way you think about money and how you will receive it.
Wealth consciousness means making a clear decision to break out of the myths and mental patterns that impoverish us and draw us again and again into the poverty cycle.
You are continuously telling yourself that you don’t have enough money and thinking about all the things you can’t afford. You are attracting yourself to this level of “less than.”
Stop thinking about all the thing you can’t do or can’t afford and begin to shift those thoughts to how you will be able to do something in the future. Confusing? Here’s an example: Instead of – “I can’t afford that new car”, try – “I’m so excited to be able to purchase any car of my choice when my business is running smoothly.”
TAKE ACTION – REPLACE THE WORDS CAN’T WITH WILL
Free the “Must. Work. 9-5.” Mindset
We have all been (or still are) victims of the must-work-for-someone-to-live-a-good-life mindset. We were all taught to go to college and graduate with a TON of debit and get a great paying job that will allow you to pay back that debit in about 30 years!
WAIT, WHAT?! That’s not what we want to do. In today’s society, we are able to make money in millions of way and you have to figure out how to make it work for you.
You are allowing fear of stepping outside of the norm society has created for you to pursue your own passion and make money.
Drop that mindset, RIGHT NOW! No longer allow yourself to be the victim of that crazy mindset EVER AGAIN. Now that that’s handle. Begin to believe in what you have to offer the word.
We all have talents, skills, or knowledge that we have been blessed with having and the world wants that. Yep! You can make money just from being you. No degree or debit required.
TAKE ACTION – FIND YOUR PASSION AND RESEARCH WAYS TO MAKE IT A PROFIT
Hire a Coach
I just want to personally say CONGRATULATIONS for deciding to make a change in your life. To be able to have fulfilment of your passion and freedom from your profits is an EXCELLENT feeling. Now that you have decided to take the next step to live a life of your dreams, you have to have someone that will hold you accountable.
When I decided to make the transition, I immediately sought guidance. My coach worked with me one-on-one to create my perfect personalized plan to get me to where I wanted to be. I recommend you doing the same or joining an accountability group to help keep you focused on your goals.
Share with me some others ways to help with a Mindset Makeover? Your advice could help that one girl that needs to get it together.
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